A long weekend in Florida 🫶🏽 #florida #news A long weekend in Florida 🫶🏽

#florida #newsmyrna #newsmyrnabeach #palmcoast #satellitebeach #hammockdunes #eastcoast #beachlife #coastalliving #beachphotography #travelphotography #girlswhotravel #radgirlslife #letsgo #vacationmode #naturephotography #floridaliving #southernliving
I wanted to paint something a little more abstract I wanted to paint something a little more abstract. This 16x20 acrylic painting is inspired by a Polaroid taken [most likely] by my grandmother, “Nannie.” The painting isn’t finished but I’m happy with session one. ❤️

#painting #artist #artwork #acryliconcanvas #acrylicart #contemporaryart #contemporarypainting #artgallery #artcollector #artoftheday #igartist #paintings
2022 Part ✌🏽 #nye #newyearseve #photodiary # 2022 Part ✌🏽

#nye #newyearseve #photodiary #photodump #wilmingtonnc #phoenix #nosara #costarica #taylorguitars #radgirlslife #girlswhortravel #art #artwork #artistsoninstagram #acrylicpainting #resolutions #bentonville
2022 Part One #2022 #newyear #florida #travel #st 2022 Part One

#2022 #newyear #florida #travel #stpetersburgflorida #keystonecolorado #summitcounty #snowboarding #mtb #mountainbiking #specializedbikes #radgirlslife #girlswhotravel
Thank you @instagram for providing a template for Thank you @instagram for providing a template for cramming a week’s worth of highlights into one post. 😂 Here’s a super speedy recap of Dec 2022 women’s surf & yoga retreat in Nosara, Costa Rica. 

Retreat: @neighborhood_offshore 
Stay: @nosara_surf_villa 
Yoga: @honeybirdflow 
Surf: @luigizuniga

#costarica #surfretreat #yogaretreat #nosara #womensretreat #playaguiones #guiones #surfing #horsebackriding #womensupportingwomen #travelgram #igtravel #puravida #travelphotography #girlswhotravel #travelgirls #radgirlslife
Straight after a week-long women’s retreat & 36- Straight after a week-long women’s retreat & 36-hours of travel, Christmas week was crafty, stupid cold, extra sugary, and loaded with family events. 🥰 Commencing hermit recovery mode.

#painting #acrylicpainting #artwork #artgallery #pheasant #artistsoninstagram #christmas #photodump
To filter would be blasphemy. ⛵️ #sailing #ca To filter would be blasphemy. ⛵️

#sailing #catamaran #yacht #sunsetsail #sunset #sailboat #costarica #nosara #travel #travelgram #travelling #puravida
Now that it has been gifted, I can share this bela Now that it has been gifted, I can share this belated house-warming gift painted for a horse-loving, beach living, surf sister. 🤙🏽Yeehaw Bra 5x7 Acrylic on Canvas

#horses #equestrian #beachlife #painting #acrylicpainting #artist #artwork #artgallery #artistsoninstagram #igart #horseriding #horselover #beachpainting #artoftheday #paintingoftheday #paintingtimelapse #timelapse
What can you really say after spending a week with What can you really say after spending a week with soul sisters in a tropical paradise? Grateful isn’t sufficient; blessed is a given. My heart is full and my spirit is energized with a special kind of confidence you can only gain from stretching beyond your comfort zone and being surrounded by women on a mission to lift one another. I have extra special people to see and a holiday to celebrate when I arrive at home. This is good…really, really good. ❤️

Stay: @nosara_surf_villa 
Retreat: @neighborhood_offshore 
Where: Nosara, Costa Rica

#costarica #surfretreat #yogaretreat #nosara #womensretreat #playaguiones #guiones #surfing #horsebackriding #womensupportingwomen #travelgram #igtravel #puravida #travelphotography #girlswhotravel #travelgirls #radgirlslife
  • Photos
  • Paintings
  • Prints
  • Home
  • About
  • Shop
    • Original Paintings
    • Limited Edition Prints
    • Photography Prints
  • Read
  • Contact

Freely Mí

  • About
  • Shop
    • Paintings
    • Photos
  • Read
    • Travel
    • Lifestyle
    • Wellness
    • Faith
  • Contact
  •  

Career, Faith ·

Real Talk – Discovering My Purpose

A lot of my friends and family don’t really “get” what it is I do. “What do you do again? Some kind of marketing, right?” “How exactly do you make money?” “When are you going to get a real job?” It was so much easier when I had an official title given to me by an official employer. Let me explain…


Chapter 1 – Press on toward the goal

 

Since April of 2015, I have been a full-time freelance writer. In addition to freelance writing, I have gotten work as a consultant, photographer, and event planner. I have also worked very hard to develop this travel and lifestyle blog, with the addition of a YouTube channel in January 2017. These are all of the ways I make money. Is this what I’ll be doing forever? I don’t know.

The concept of being self-employed is REALLY difficult for most to comprehend. Growing up, we are trained to get a job, not to start a business. A lot of hard things happened to get me to the point of taking the risk to be self-employed, but ultimately, it wasn’t exactly my decision. I graduated at the beginning of the recession. After a year with no luck finding a job, I left home to live 1k miles away, where I knew no one. We lived in 3 states and in both of our parents’ houses within 6 months of getting married. I worked two part-time jobs for months while trying to find full-time work. I landed my dream job and worked my butt off – then lost my job to be replaced by lower-paid interns. What now?

The recession not only made it difficult to find a job; it also affected the reliability of employment since businesses were constantly downsizing or restructuring to save money or avoid bankruptcy. Clearly, it was about as difficult for me to trust the stability of Corporate America as much as the stability of self-employment. The thought of getting another job was really scary because I felt like I was putting my best efforts and 2/3 of my waking hours, in the hands of someone who saw me as replaceable.

Chapter 2 – Many are called but few are chosen

When you know, you know. Sometimes it takes losing everything to let God in. We so badly want to be in control, that we rarely give him the reins to do what he does best. In the midst of hysterical tears and hyperventilating (at the loss of my job), God spoke to my heart and said very clearly, “I have something greater for you, but you would have never quit your job.” Then, almost immediately following, Ben asked me, “Why don’t you just try doing it yourself?”

With a completely vulnerable state of mind, I started to see the true potential of my life. A few years prior, I had started Freely Mí (then called Adventure Culture) to share about cornerstone experiences that were re-shaping my life. Everything that was once scary was no longer intimidating, and I had begun to actively seek experiences that would further this notion of fearlessness and inner freedom. Losing my job was something I hadn’t anticipated…an all-new fear to overcome as well as a new cornerstone moment. When I said, “When you know, you know.” I was referring to that aha! moment when I discovered what I believe is God’s purpose for my life (and despite the direction this story seems to be going, it isn’t self-employment).

Chapter 3 – A light in dark places

The common denominator in all of these cornerstone moments was overcoming fear. This is my purpose. To overcome fear, adversity, intimidation, and discomfort, in order to be an example of true freedom and encourage it in others. Let’s say I was doing these things — moving away from home, traveling to foreign countries, starting a business, paying off debt, and trying new things — but I never told anyone about it. What if I was overcoming all of these fears and discovering a new level of fulfillment, but never shared how I was doing it. That would be like watching someone drown, knowing you could throw them a lifesaver, but instead waiting to see if they’ll die or figure out how to swim.

Fear, adversity, intimidation, and discomfort are all dark things that keep us from enjoying the light of life and I intend to expose them for what they really are — a waste of precious time.

Chapter 4 – Bearing good fruit

Whatever my platform may be – a job, self-employment, my blog, YouTube channel, events or photography – what I really do, or rather, what God does through me, is encourage people to fearlessly pursue a fulfilling and fruitful life.


Verses

[Philippians 3:14] Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.
[Psalm 139:12] Even the darkness will not be dark to you the night will shine like the day.
[John 8:12] I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.
[Matthew 22:14] For many are called, but few are chosen.
[Matthew 7:16] By their fruit you will recognize them.

In: Career, Faith · Tagged: Diary, Event Planner, Faith, Freelance Photographer, Freelance Writer, Jesus Christ, John 8:12, lifestyle blog, Matthew 22:!4, Matthew 7:16, Omaha Photographer, Philippians 3:14, Psalm 139:12, Purpose, Self-Employment, Travel Blog

You’ll Also Love

Real Talk: Having Faith When Bad Things Happen
Real Talk: This feels unfair & I don’t understand
The Importance of Connection

Comments

  1. Amy says

    May 1, 2017 at 6:56 pm

    Awesome!

    Reply

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Recipe Rating




This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Next Post >

20 Simple Ways to Make a Difference – Preserve & Protect our Planet

trending posts

  • Plant Based Diet Grocery List
  • 14 Spirit-Filled Books You Need In Your Library
  • Choosing the Right Diet – Paleo, Vegan, Pescatarian, Mediterranean?
  • Family Recipe: Croatian Povitica

@freelymi

A long weekend in Florida 🫶🏽 #florida #news A long weekend in Florida 🫶🏽

#florida #newsmyrna #newsmyrnabeach #palmcoast #satellitebeach #hammockdunes #eastcoast #beachlife #coastalliving #beachphotography #travelphotography #girlswhotravel #radgirlslife #letsgo #vacationmode #naturephotography #floridaliving #southernliving
I wanted to paint something a little more abstract I wanted to paint something a little more abstract. This 16x20 acrylic painting is inspired by a Polaroid taken [most likely] by my grandmother, “Nannie.” The painting isn’t finished but I’m happy with session one. ❤️

#painting #artist #artwork #acryliconcanvas #acrylicart #contemporaryart #contemporarypainting #artgallery #artcollector #artoftheday #igartist #paintings
2022 Part ✌🏽 #nye #newyearseve #photodiary # 2022 Part ✌🏽

#nye #newyearseve #photodiary #photodump #wilmingtonnc #phoenix #nosara #costarica #taylorguitars #radgirlslife #girlswhortravel #art #artwork #artistsoninstagram #acrylicpainting #resolutions #bentonville
2022 Part One #2022 #newyear #florida #travel #st 2022 Part One

#2022 #newyear #florida #travel #stpetersburgflorida #keystonecolorado #summitcounty #snowboarding #mtb #mountainbiking #specializedbikes #radgirlslife #girlswhotravel
Thank you @instagram for providing a template for Thank you @instagram for providing a template for cramming a week’s worth of highlights into one post. 😂 Here’s a super speedy recap of Dec 2022 women’s surf & yoga retreat in Nosara, Costa Rica. 

Retreat: @neighborhood_offshore 
Stay: @nosara_surf_villa 
Yoga: @honeybirdflow 
Surf: @luigizuniga

#costarica #surfretreat #yogaretreat #nosara #womensretreat #playaguiones #guiones #surfing #horsebackriding #womensupportingwomen #travelgram #igtravel #puravida #travelphotography #girlswhotravel #travelgirls #radgirlslife
Straight after a week-long women’s retreat & 36- Straight after a week-long women’s retreat & 36-hours of travel, Christmas week was crafty, stupid cold, extra sugary, and loaded with family events. 🥰 Commencing hermit recovery mode.

#painting #acrylicpainting #artwork #artgallery #pheasant #artistsoninstagram #christmas #photodump
To filter would be blasphemy. ⛵️ #sailing #ca To filter would be blasphemy. ⛵️

#sailing #catamaran #yacht #sunsetsail #sunset #sailboat #costarica #nosara #travel #travelgram #travelling #puravida
Now that it has been gifted, I can share this bela Now that it has been gifted, I can share this belated house-warming gift painted for a horse-loving, beach living, surf sister. 🤙🏽Yeehaw Bra 5x7 Acrylic on Canvas

#horses #equestrian #beachlife #painting #acrylicpainting #artist #artwork #artgallery #artistsoninstagram #igart #horseriding #horselover #beachpainting #artoftheday #paintingoftheday #paintingtimelapse #timelapse
What can you really say after spending a week with What can you really say after spending a week with soul sisters in a tropical paradise? Grateful isn’t sufficient; blessed is a given. My heart is full and my spirit is energized with a special kind of confidence you can only gain from stretching beyond your comfort zone and being surrounded by women on a mission to lift one another. I have extra special people to see and a holiday to celebrate when I arrive at home. This is good…really, really good. ❤️

Stay: @nosara_surf_villa 
Retreat: @neighborhood_offshore 
Where: Nosara, Costa Rica

#costarica #surfretreat #yogaretreat #nosara #womensretreat #playaguiones #guiones #surfing #horsebackriding #womensupportingwomen #travelgram #igtravel #puravida #travelphotography #girlswhotravel #travelgirls #radgirlslife
November was nice. 🥰 #diary #photodump #novemb November was nice. 🥰

#diary #photodump #november #photodiary #photojournal #slowliving #slowdown
Happy Thanksgiving friends! I painted this lone tr Happy Thanksgiving friends! I painted this lone tree on a hill in late summer/early fall but hadn’t shared the process. I love her texture. She’ll be living in a light oak floating frame. 🖼 DM for Christmas commissions.

#painting #acrylicpainting #acrylic #acryliconcanvas #artworks #artgallery #artist #acrylicpaint #landscapepainting #igart
Christmas commission 🎁 5x7 Acrylic on Canvas # Christmas commission 🎁 5x7 Acrylic on Canvas

#christmas #cardinals #paintingtimelapse #arttimelapse #acryliconcanvas #acrylicart #acrylicpaint #paintingoftheday #painting #artwork #artistsoninstagram #artgallery #originalpaintings #artcollector #commissionartist
4 Days in Phoenix #phoenix #arizona #scottsdale # 4 Days in Phoenix

#phoenix #arizona #scottsdale #mesaarizona #tempearizona #southwestairlines #travelgram #justinboots
(3) 4x7 #acrylic & ink on paper 🥑🍅 They’re (3) 4x7 #acrylic & ink on paper 🥑🍅 They’re not what you think. 🤔 Many still think of tomatoes, avocado and zucchini as vegetables because they’re not sweet like most fruits. But they are, in fact, fruits! 

#painting #acrylicpainting #originalart #artwork #artist #artgallery #artcollector #paintingoftheday #nutritionist
Did you guess the mystery lady?? 🤩 This sister Did you guess the mystery lady?? 🤩 This sister series reminded me of my favorite music video of all time: Black or White by Michael Jackson. If you haven’t seen it, watch it now. It instantly makes me happy. 

#art #artist #painting #portraitpainting #acrylicpainting #artwork #artistsoninstagram #artgallery #artoftheday #originalart #artistsupport #artcollective #artdaily
Sunday still life. 🎨 I might make this a weekly Sunday still life. 🎨 I might make this a weekly thing; blues music included. 😎 Fun fact: B.B. King and I have the same birthday. 🎸

#stilllife #painting #sundayinspiration #art #artwork #mixedmediaart #artgallery #artoftheday #artistsoninstagram #igartist #artcollector #artistatwork
It’s the little things that get me…like fun so It’s the little things that get me…like fun socks 🌵homemade pumpkin muffins 🎃funny greeting cards ⛄️getting your first @stetsonusa 🤠and QT with your pretty mama ❤️ 

Wishing you all a heartwarming week full of the good stuff! 🥰

#slowliving #smallthings #seekjoy #thehappynow #stetson #artist #painter #artistsoninstagram #lovemore
I often refer to my work as a visual art because i I often refer to my work as a visual art because it encompasses multiple mediums. Painting and photography came later in life but I’ve been involved in the arts since childhood. 

#artist #photographer #fineart #artcollector #writer #artistsofinstagram #visualartist #fineartphotography #fineartpainting #originalart #creativeentrepreneur
Wet paint reveal! “Look Ahead” 12x12 Acrylic o Wet paint reveal! “Look Ahead” 12x12 Acrylic on canvas. She’s 1 of 6 in a sister set. 

#acrylicpainting #painting #artwork #artistsoninstagram #igartist #artcollector #artgallery #art #artcurator #artoftheday
I’d watch the whole time lapse just to listen to I’d watch the whole time lapse just to listen to this song…but the final product is pretty dope too. 🎨 Allá prima “I Knew You” 12x12 acrylic on canvas.

#allaprima #allaprimapainting #acrylicpainting #artwork #painting #artistsoninstagram #artgallery #artcollector

Support

  • Services
  • Shipping & Returns
  • Terms of Service
  • Privacy Policy
  • Contact

join mí

Enter your email address below to receive updates direct to your inbox.

Topics

  • Real Talk
  • Wellness
  • Travel
  • Lifestyle

Copyright © 2023 Freely Mí · Theme by 17th Avenue