A new friend said it best, “This place is really A new friend said it best, “This place is really special.” ✨ Tomorrow marks 3 weeks in our first home. Here are some moments from the last 7 days in NWA. Special thanks to the best welcome team in town - @megs.grand.life @tiffanymrose & @jenniferpurifoy 🫶🏽

#nwa #northwestarkansas #bentonville #bellavistaarkansas #ourfirsthome #arkansas #caamp #freshgrass
New kitchen, who dis?! 👩🏻‍🍳 Last night’s dinner brought to you by @frigidaire @calphalon & the @cityofbellavista farmer’s market 🫑 I kept it simple with grounding vegetables full of minerals and vitamin C, plus anti-inflammatory herbs then sprinkled with hemp seeds for amino acids, fatty acids & protein.

Herbs/Seasonings:
- Turmeric
- Cumin
- Cardamom 
- Coriander 
- Garlic
- S&P

Sauce:
- Tahini
- Dijon Mustard
- ACV
- Dill
- Lemon Juice
- Maple Syrup

#nutritionist #holistichealth #plantbasedrecipes #wholehealth #wholefoods #northwestarkansas #farmersmarket #healthylifestyle
Two weeks living in Northwest Arkansas today! ✌️It’s been a crazy time with moving, unpacking, scheduling deliveries, installs & services, building furniture, fertilizing sod…the list goes on. This last week, we’ve finally felt free to get out & explore 🚴🏽‍♀️🛶but I’m already in need of a day to rest. 🫠
Status: pooped in the best way & preparing for guests. [Note: Yes, our adorable neighbors brought us welcome cards and baked goods.)

#arkansas #northwestarkansas #bentonville #bellavista #paddleboarding #mountainbiking #mtb #ourfirsthome #arkansaslife
We moved! 🚐📦📦 — #northwestarkansas #ar We moved! 🚐📦📦

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#northwestarkansas #arkansas #bentonville #movingday #ourfirsthome #newhome #bellavistaarkansas #nwarkansas
We got dressed up…it lasted 2 hours…wrestled a We got dressed up…it lasted 2 hours…wrestled a 10 year old for chocolate eggs, flew kites, and watched the sun set over the lake. Thankful for this day. 🌅✝️
It’s been a few weeks but there’s still more t It’s been a few weeks but there’s still more to share from our week in the San Diego area. ☀️
—
Spots:
🏄‍♂️Del Mar
🦭La Jolla
🌊Torrey Pines
🐟Seaport Village

#surfphotography #sandiego #visitcalifornia #delmar #lajolla #torreypines #seaportvillage #travelgram #surf #socal #california #travelphotography
March 2023 really delivered & it’s not over yet! March 2023 really delivered & it’s not over yet! Back-to-back travels to California & NWA, house hunting, accidentally chopping 4” off my hair 🤦🏻‍♀️ & prepping for the first @flpsde event post-pandemic. 🤪 If you’re in the Omaha area, join us tomorrow at Lewis & Clark MTB trails - the action starts at 11am!
I’m a big fan of surfboards as art. 🤙 #surf I’m a big fan of surfboards as art. 🤙

#surf #surfboard #california #sandiego #surfart #beachvacation #visitcalifornia #travelphotography
Ramona, California - We go for family, but stay fo Ramona, California - We go for family, but stay for vineyard views and free avocados! 🥑

#ramona #vineyard #vineyardviews #southerncalifornia #socal @visitcalifornia #travelgram
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Real Talk – Stoke The Fire, Embrace Your Differences & Stand Out

People tend to do one of three things…

(1) Ignore the fire. (2) Devalue the fire. (3) Stoke the fire. I think we often look at people who have succeeded at something – let’s just say life – and we chalk it up to them being “rare” or “lucky.” Why? Sure, there are people who have less complicated paths to meeting their goals, but at the heart of it all, they had to want to succeed before they could succeed. Does that make sense? You can’t actually do something great without believing you should or could. <– Slap that on a bumper sticker!

Life is like a puzzle

When I say “stoke the fire” I’m obviously talking about the fire within you (Whoa man, that’s deep!). What fills you with passion, energy, excitement, and drive? I genuinely believe that our lives are like a puzzle and each piece is like a trial, an achievement, a special skill, a personal or physical trait. All of these pieces come together to make up the puzzle of our life. Since no one has the same combination of pieces, we can’t all have the same puzzle. At the end of your days on this planet, what kind of picture would you want your puzzle pieces to make? Your puzzle could be total happenstance, it could be intentional, or maybe a combo of both, but the point is – you can actually have an influence on each puzzle piece and the final picture.

Pursue what makes you feel excited

When I said that most people ignore or devalue their fire (aka passion/purpose), I’m saying that folks are either unwilling or unaware of what to do with it, or they tell themselves it isn’t important and no one will care. It’s like that quote: “The worst mistake you can make is being afraid to make one.” This is SO true! Don’t be afraid to pursue whatever it is that makes you feel excited, ambitious or impactful, whether it’s an idea, a mission or a special skill.

Stoke the fire – even if it means getting burned

Elon Musk, Mother Theresa, and John Lennon weren’t afraid to embrace their ideas and stoke the fire. It takes an element of fearlessness to put an idea into action and be unashamed to stand out. My passion and purpose are sharing stories that inspire and encourage others to let go of their fears and live a more fulfilling and fruitful life. When I decided to pursue freelancing full-time, a lot of people didn’t understand and many encouraged me to think of my passion as more of a hobby or side-job (even those closest to me). Navigating this solo-profession and staying true to my mission isn’t always easy, nothing worth doing is, but in order to persevere, I have to keep stoking that fire – even if it means getting burned from time to time.

Happiness is an inside job

I encourage you to take some time to search your heart. Challenge your safe way of thinking and write down what comes to mind. Ask yourself, “If money, opportunity, and opinions weren’t an issue, what would I do?” Once you start to stoke the fire that is naturally within you, you may be surprised by how freeing it feels! Lastly, I want to remind you that happiness is an inside job…don’t let the fears of others steal your purpose!

Share your discoveries with me in the comment section or email me at michelle@freelymi.com!

In: Career, Real Talk · Tagged: Encouragement, Freelance Writer, Inspiration, motivation, Omaha Blogger, Real Talk

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A new friend said it best, “This place is really A new friend said it best, “This place is really special.” ✨ Tomorrow marks 3 weeks in our first home. Here are some moments from the last 7 days in NWA. Special thanks to the best welcome team in town - @megs.grand.life @tiffanymrose & @jenniferpurifoy 🫶🏽

#nwa #northwestarkansas #bentonville #bellavistaarkansas #ourfirsthome #arkansas #caamp #freshgrass
New kitchen, who dis?! 👩🏻‍🍳 Last night’s dinner brought to you by @frigidaire @calphalon & the @cityofbellavista farmer’s market 🫑 I kept it simple with grounding vegetables full of minerals and vitamin C, plus anti-inflammatory herbs then sprinkled with hemp seeds for amino acids, fatty acids & protein.

Herbs/Seasonings:
- Turmeric
- Cumin
- Cardamom 
- Coriander 
- Garlic
- S&P

Sauce:
- Tahini
- Dijon Mustard
- ACV
- Dill
- Lemon Juice
- Maple Syrup

#nutritionist #holistichealth #plantbasedrecipes #wholehealth #wholefoods #northwestarkansas #farmersmarket #healthylifestyle
Two weeks living in Northwest Arkansas today! ✌️It’s been a crazy time with moving, unpacking, scheduling deliveries, installs & services, building furniture, fertilizing sod…the list goes on. This last week, we’ve finally felt free to get out & explore 🚴🏽‍♀️🛶but I’m already in need of a day to rest. 🫠
Status: pooped in the best way & preparing for guests. [Note: Yes, our adorable neighbors brought us welcome cards and baked goods.)

#arkansas #northwestarkansas #bentonville #bellavista #paddleboarding #mountainbiking #mtb #ourfirsthome #arkansaslife
We moved! 🚐📦📦 — #northwestarkansas #ar We moved! 🚐📦📦

—
#northwestarkansas #arkansas #bentonville #movingday #ourfirsthome #newhome #bellavistaarkansas #nwarkansas
We got dressed up…it lasted 2 hours…wrestled a We got dressed up…it lasted 2 hours…wrestled a 10 year old for chocolate eggs, flew kites, and watched the sun set over the lake. Thankful for this day. 🌅✝️
It’s been a few weeks but there’s still more t It’s been a few weeks but there’s still more to share from our week in the San Diego area. ☀️
—
Spots:
🏄‍♂️Del Mar
🦭La Jolla
🌊Torrey Pines
🐟Seaport Village

#surfphotography #sandiego #visitcalifornia #delmar #lajolla #torreypines #seaportvillage #travelgram #surf #socal #california #travelphotography
March 2023 really delivered & it’s not over yet! March 2023 really delivered & it’s not over yet! Back-to-back travels to California & NWA, house hunting, accidentally chopping 4” off my hair 🤦🏻‍♀️ & prepping for the first @flpsde event post-pandemic. 🤪 If you’re in the Omaha area, join us tomorrow at Lewis & Clark MTB trails - the action starts at 11am!
I’m a big fan of surfboards as art. 🤙 #surf I’m a big fan of surfboards as art. 🤙

#surf #surfboard #california #sandiego #surfart #beachvacation #visitcalifornia #travelphotography
Ramona, California - We go for family, but stay fo Ramona, California - We go for family, but stay for vineyard views and free avocados! 🥑

#ramona #vineyard #vineyardviews #southerncalifornia #socal @visitcalifornia #travelgram
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A long weekend in Florida 🫶🏽 #florida #news A long weekend in Florida 🫶🏽

#florida #newsmyrna #newsmyrnabeach #palmcoast #satellitebeach #hammockdunes #eastcoast #beachlife #coastalliving #beachphotography #travelphotography #girlswhotravel #radgirlslife #letsgo #vacationmode #naturephotography #floridaliving #southernliving
I wanted to paint something a little more abstract I wanted to paint something a little more abstract. This 16x20 acrylic painting is inspired by a Polaroid taken [most likely] by my grandmother, “Nannie.” The painting isn’t finished but I’m happy with session one. ❤️

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2022 Part ✌🏽 #nye #newyearseve #photodiary # 2022 Part ✌🏽

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Retreat: @neighborhood_offshore 
Stay: @nosara_surf_villa 
Yoga: @honeybirdflow 
Surf: @luigizuniga

#costarica #surfretreat #yogaretreat #nosara #womensretreat #playaguiones #guiones #surfing #horsebackriding #womensupportingwomen #travelgram #igtravel #puravida #travelphotography #girlswhotravel #travelgirls #radgirlslife
Straight after a week-long women’s retreat & 36- Straight after a week-long women’s retreat & 36-hours of travel, Christmas week was crafty, stupid cold, extra sugary, and loaded with family events. 🥰 Commencing hermit recovery mode.

#painting #acrylicpainting #artwork #artgallery #pheasant #artistsoninstagram #christmas #photodump
To filter would be blasphemy. ⛵️ #sailing #ca To filter would be blasphemy. ⛵️

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Now that it has been gifted, I can share this bela Now that it has been gifted, I can share this belated house-warming gift painted for a horse-loving, beach living, surf sister. 🤙🏽Yeehaw Bra 5x7 Acrylic on Canvas

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Stay: @nosara_surf_villa 
Retreat: @neighborhood_offshore 
Where: Nosara, Costa Rica

#costarica #surfretreat #yogaretreat #nosara #womensretreat #playaguiones #guiones #surfing #horsebackriding #womensupportingwomen #travelgram #igtravel #puravida #travelphotography #girlswhotravel #travelgirls #radgirlslife
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